Posts by Tanner's Momma:
On Happy…
We all deserve to live our lives as joyfully as possible, despite our heartaches. I am not the same person I was before Tanner died. I am a broken person, with a little less spring in my step, and a little less cheer in my voice. I will never be who I was before, […]
- Posted on: Mar 20 2014
On Grief
Here’s the thing about being a bereaved parent – it is the constant. It is the new starting point for all other feelings, experiences and emotions. You can feel joy, but you feel joy with a base of sadness, an underpinning of grief. I feel joy when I watch Chase accomplish new things – like […]
- Posted on: Feb 21 2014
I’m his best girl.
I really can’t believe my baby is going to be 4 years old. 4 years ago, on January 30th, 2010, Chase came into our lives, 9 weeks early, a tiny little man, only 3lb 5oz. He was born via emergency c-section and I should’ve known then that his grand “crash” entrance into this world was […]
- Posted on: Jan 28 2014
Questions from an almost 4 year old…
Chase talks about Tanner often. We talk about Tanner often, but lately Chase has really been talking about him alot. We were walking through Home Goods Saturday night and Chase wanted to sit in the big part of the shopping cart. He said the seat was where Tanner was going to sit. Chase “plays” with […]
- Posted on: Jan 6 2014
Another year older, another year missing you…
Birthdays just aren’t what they used to be. We used to have a cake, cards, presents… we used to celebrate. Today is my birthday, and I have no desire to celebrate anything. Actually, I wish it would just fade away and be just an average crappy Tuesday. I am overwhelmed by the happy birthday wishes […]
- Posted on: Dec 10 2013
Still Thankful…
I was thinking yesterday about how different life could be. What if I went to a different high school? The one my grandparents wanted to send me to was St. Dominick’s. I wanted to go to Holy Trinity because all of my friends were going there. If I had listened to my grandparents, would I […]
- Posted on: Nov 27 2013
Happy 6th Birthday Tanner, in Heaven…
November 12, 2007 was without a doubt, the greatest day of my life. Andrew and I were married 4 years and had trouble conceiving. My whole life I believed that things happened because you made them happen. If you go to college and get good grades, you get a good job. If you work hard […]
- Posted on: Nov 12 2013
The Scariest Halloween Trick…
Want to hear something really scary this Halloween? 7 children will die TODAY from pediatric cancer. Pediatric cancer doesn’t pause for holidays or any other day of the year. Today 46 more children will be diagnosed, and 2,555 children will have celebrated their last Halloween last year. 2,555 children will not be wearing costumes this […]
- Posted on: Oct 31 2013
I didn’t read the course map…
This Sunday was a big deal for me, personally. I completed my first half-marathon. 13.1 miles. This is a big deal because I only took control of my health about a year ago. Growing up I was always athletic, I was on the swimming team in high school and I worked out often. When Tanner […]
- Posted on: Oct 7 2013
Please read this very important post from guest blogger Maria Schulz
In honor of Pediatric Cancer Awareness Month, we are pleased to welcome guest blogger Maria Schulz to our site. Please read this very important post!–Melissa Did you know that September is Pediatric Cancer Awareness Month? There was a time that I didn’t know that fact at all. Like most busy parents, I often rush […]
- Posted on: Sep 24 2013